Episodes
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with The Gavin Sisters
In this funny and deeply moving episode of Under the Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn, I sit down with The Gavin Sisters, Sharon and Loretta, to talk honestly about love, loss, sisterhood, and rebuilding life from scratch. The sisters share their very real dating disasters, from ankle-tag confessions to painfully awkward first kisses, alongside heavier moments like divorce, being left while pregnant, and navigating single motherhood. They explain how moving in together became a natural decision, raising their children as one family while supporting each other through illness, burnout, and major life changes. Sharon opens up about living with a severe autoimmune disease and how stress, sobriety, and a plant-based lifestyle slowly helped her recover. Together, they talk about stepping away from dating apps, choosing peace over pressure, and finding fulfilment through friendship, purpose, comedy, and their wellness retreats.
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Chris & Catherine
In this fabulous episode, Tatiana sits down with long-term couple Chris & Catherine, who have been together since they were just 13 years old. From friends with benefits at school parties to building a real adult life together, their story spans over 11 years of growing up side by side. They talk openly about first times, insecurity, jealousy, and how love changes from your teens into adulthood. They share how learning each other’s love languages, communicating without shouting, and staying emotionally connected helped them stay together through busy and difficult phases. They also open up about sex, intimacy, mismatched sex drives, scheduling time for each other, money, living together, and getting engaged. The episode ends with honest reflections on marriage, pressure to have children, and choosing not to rush major life decisions just because everyone else expects it.
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Jacky & Eleanor
In this deeply emotional and brutally honest episode, Tatiana sits down with married couple Jacky & Eleanor to explore their five-year battle to start a family: three miscarriages, three rounds of IVF, DNA fragmentation, surgery, over £50k spent, and the miracle pregnancy that finally changed everything. From Jacky's past as a world-touring DJ fuelled by drugs, alcohol and afterparties, to the moment he realised he had to rebuild his entire life to become a father, this conversation goes far beyond fertility touching on love, addiction, shame, sex, resilience and staying together when everything keeps falling apart. Eleanor opens up about chemical pregnancies, being hospitalised from fertility medication, discovering PCOS and immune issues years into their journey, and the silent heartbreak of watching everyone else’s baby announcements while grieving her own losses. Together, they share how everything they endured inspired them to create Aloomah Fertility an online fertility community and podcast supporting both partners, especially men who are so often overlooked in infertility conversations.
dirty talk -Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Darren Styles
In this must-watch interview, we sit down with Darren Styles, the powerful figure behind Attitude Magazine (the world's biggest LGBTQ+ media brand ) and the UK publisher of Rolling Stone. Darren gives a raw account of what it was like growing up gay in the UK during the 80s and 90s, the era of Clause 28 and the AIDS crisis , where he felt compelled to hide his sexuality until the age of 32. Discover how Attitude became a "beacon of hope" , why Darren believes it's a privilege to speak on behalf of the community , and the emotional stories of how the magazine has genuinely saved lives, including accounts from Tom Daley, Sam Smith , and rugby referee Nigel Owens. Darren also details the constant battle against media censorship and the political fight for trans rights. Plus, hear the incredible story of his 12-year quest to get Elton John on the cover of Attitude.
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Deina
This week I’m joined by the incredible singer Deina for a conversation that flows from star signs and energies (including why my Capricorn self and my Leo boyfriend might not be the most compatible 👀), to the truths of a girls’ group chat, and the creative process behind her EP and upcoming album. Deina also takes us behind her lyrics - unpacking the stories, emotions, and moments that shaped her music. It’s equal parts astrology tea & music inspo!
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Ellie Mckay
What do you do when you hit 42, walk away from a 20-year marriage, and suddenly find yourself back on Hinge wondering what on earth “vibes” and “icks” are?
If you’re Ellie McKay, you reinvent yourself completely and the old version of you would probably be horrified. In this episode, Ellie spills the tea on everything: from millionaire to homeless, telling her kids about the divorce, dating in midlife, why so many people settle for mediocre (and why she refuses to), and the wild ride of falling in love with her boss. We dive into sex parties, postnatal depression, self-development, and the chaos of working with your mum (spoiler: don’t do it).
Ellie is hilarious, brutally honest, and refreshingly real. This conversation will make you laugh, maybe blush, and definitely think twice about where you’re playing it safe in your own life. 👉 Swipe right on this episode - you won’t regret it.
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Ingrid Rygg
In this episode, we go far beneath the surface, exploring what it really means to be a woman, the tangled layers of family relationships, and the personal cost of choices around career and children. Ingrid shares candidly about panic attacks during intimacy, the lingering weight of never feeling “good enough,” and how her bond with her mother shifts when distance is part of the equation.
Together, we dive into the “Love, Lust, Learn” theory, why consent must be taught and reinforced, and the ways silence around “no” can ripple into adulthood. It’s a conversation about identity, resilience, and redefining worth through music, memory, and the stories we’re brave enough to tell.
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Sex Advice for Seniors
In this conversation, I sit down with Suzanne Noble, creator of Sex Advice for Seniors, to explore the unexpected twists and turns of later-life sexual discovery. Suzanne opens up about her unconventional journey from spending two years having only threesomes, to facing friends’ concerns about whether she was bordering on sex addiction. We dive into the realities of intimacy as we age: vaginal dryness, the liberating truth that sex doesn’t stop in our later years, and the role of vaginal estrogen in women’s sexual health. Suzanne also shares deeply personal stories, being divorced, losing two long-term partners, and embracing a non-monogamous lifestyle. Along the way, we talk French swinging clubs, clothing-optional towns, and a few cheeky hotel room scandals. This episode is a fearlessly frank look at desire, resilience, and joy at any age and a reminder that the adventure doesn’t end just because the candles on the cake keep adding up.
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Lauren
In this conversation, Lauren shares her story, one marked by pain, survival, strength, and the kind of honesty that takes your breath away. We talk about the hidden patterns of abuse: how easy it is to get caught in them, how hard it is to leave, and how those experiences leave lasting marks on our hearts, our relationships, and our sense of self.
Lauren speaks with such bravery about the moments that broke her, the red flags she missed, and the fight to trust herself again all whilst having two gorgeous children. We also open up about the everyday realities of healing - from the messiness of modern dating to the unsolicited messages no one asks for and how difficult it can be to feel whole again after you've been silenced or shamed. This conversation is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck, questioned their worth, or needed a reminder that healing is possible and that you are never alone.
dirty talk - Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Jason Graystone
In this episode, investor and entrepreneur Jason Graystone opens up like never before. We dive into building emotional security despite a complicated past, becoming a dad at 22, and how Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich reframed his views on sex and purpose. From soundproofing offices for intimacy to the transactional nature of relationships, sex tapes, and grounding through arguments - this is an unexpected look at success, self-worth, and connection.