So this episode is a slightly different one.... I'm in Fiji & I am filming from Naomi's, her husband's & their 4 children's bed, living room & kitchen. I am so lucky to have met & live with someone like Naomi in Fiji. I have never felt so useless until I met her and realised she does more work than most of us put together. Naomi is an exceptional Mum, Daughter, Friend and Voice of Reason. Speaking to Naomi in this episode is just a tiny insight to what she actually does day to day. Apologies for any audio cracks and bad quality video footage within this episode.

We discuss EVERYTHING from the superstitions in her family regarding death meaning she has to have more children, to the scariest idea I think about; when you have no idea you are pregnant until the baby comes because your menstruation has been normal!!

In Fiji culture it is more likely the women are the breadwinners & feel pressure around being a mum and a 'good' woman. It was also interesting learning how they view women body image compared to the western society which is an absolute plus.

And did you know we now have a thing called human rights? Naomi you are one in a million and you've been through it all but boy do you have an amazing sense of humour and I cannot thank you nor your family enough for letting me come into your home - (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100080373706605) If anyone is planning to head to Fiji.

I hope you get to the end of this episode and see that we are raising money for Naomi's family and village. It would mean so much to me and all of them if you were able to donate anything you can for their school in order to have another teacher.

Please view how to donate here...

https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/underthesheetswithtatianaashborninfiji?utm_term=YYM4xVnVE

In this episode I talk to founder Sophie of Our Guilty Pleasures, a business that has curated the best toys from around the world, all in one place. Not only do we get BTS of the store but we also get amazing advice on how to work alongside a partner in business, sex and friendships. I get gifted my first personal vibrator which is super exciting and have a much needed conversation about female pleasure.

I really hope you have the time to take a look at their website: https://www.ourguiltypleasures.co.uk

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Diggory Waite is my new favourite human. He is possibly the funniest and kindest person I have been lucky enough to meet and this episode is an absolute corker. Diggory has many anecdotes, mostly about having a sex therapist as a mum but not long after that, he talks about his porn relapse by Samuel L. Jackson's Twitter that made waves in his recovery journey. Waite discusses why he’s struggled when getting into relationships and gives us a step by step guide to navigating attachment styles, therapy sessions & what dating apps are best for working out who’s up for anal this Christmas. I cannot wait for you all to listen to this!!

Sonny is a man of many colours and we have to celebrate his charming self with all his quirkiness and perhaps his difference of opinions at times. From the christian upbringing and personal exploration to questioning the ease of obtaining sex, Sonny opens ups about his sex life and where he is now as an 18 year old.

Join the conversation as we dive into the world of personal preferences, from red trousers to an unexpected love for chicken nuggets, creating a space where no topic is off-limits.

This episode evolves into an exploration of first times, contrasting the blurry haze of drunk encounters with the clarity of sober experiences, and addresses the lingering emotions that sometimes follow moments of intimacy.

We explore the power dynamics of control versus submission, daringly using provocative language like "slag" to ignite discussions about personal choices and societal expectations. Have you ever felt like a sheep following the herd in the realm of relationships?

We discuss the idea of masculinity and I break his heart when I tell him that women do fake orgasm and a toy should be celebrated rather than thinking you're not good enough.

Tune in for an episode that challenges norms, sparks conversations, and ultimately celebrates the diversity of human interaction.

If you were told that if you have sex, you'd lose your special glue, how would you react? Sophia wrote a book. This is one of the most interesting conversations I have ever had exploring such in depth topics about vaginismus, hymen repair & the idea of having a 'tight' vagina. Sex education isn't taken seriously and can lead to serious health issues. If you don't know, get to know. I didn't realise a lot about the world of sex before I started this podcast - Sophia helped me through it x

James disscusses what love means to him. How autism plays a part in his love life and what he’s truly looking for (not just Beyonce). He opens up about his sexuality and how he hasn’t come out to his parents yet & that religion plays a big part in how he remains positive. James you were a pleasure to have on the show, thank you for being kind 💜

I met Steve at the pub & asked if he wouldnt mind hopping on the show and as nervous as he was he did a fantastic job and gave a lot of insight into the world of Steve. We discuss growing up in an all boys household to later, boarding school. The challenges of expressing emotion & how first time experiences can affect your later years. Having spent time living in Ibiza, he’s had quite the life, now with kids and two divorces I ask the question of who's next?

Thank you for sharing your story, I am grateful to have met you x

This is Kirsty, she is an absolute legend of a person, strong, independent woman and I have so much love for her. We discuss how she has managed to become sober after a sex life of alcohol and drugs, raising children in an open environment, safeguarding & the process of having hysterectomy, the challenges of endometriosis and how it felt to go through menopause early.

There is so much content and I would so love to delve in more.

Thank you Kirsty for allowing me an insight of what you have been through 💜

I hope you get your sex swing

Model, Del Winder, dresses to impress at all occasions even when asked to hop into my bed. We talk the walk, delve into the assumptions of the industry with eating disorders and judging your own weight due to performance, not only as a model but a boxer.

Del is from Thailand, so we chat Thai culture & ping pong shows and what people actually mean by 'lady boys.'

Watch now for tongue techniques, math problems and have you ever wondered how much sex you could buy for 10 million pounds?

Having Danielle on my bed was the greatest pleasure and not just in one way. Danielle takes us on the ride of our lives and I don’t think I can write something for this other than you must watch this yourselves. You will cry, you will laugh and you will be speechless and you will all know that Danielle is ‘just a natural at it’

Your stories are incredible and a lot I wish were very different for you Danielle because you deserved better but atleast you are here to tell the tales and educate the rest of us, plus you don’t half tell them well!

Thank you for sharing, your story matters.